Remembering Wayne

Ten years ago today, my first husband, Bethany’s dad went to be with Jesus. Even though Wayne had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer more than two years before, and I was aware that without a miracle he would be leaving us, there is nothing that prepares you for the loss of your beloved spouse. 

I remember feeling so broken and alone as I drove Bethany and myself home from the hospital that morning. And I was suddenly overwhelmed with the realization that I had become the single parent of my 16 year old daughter, who would soon be completing high school and entering college, and we were without her dad’s perspective and wisdom as she moved into adulthood. Contemplating what I would be facing in the following weeks, months and years without Wayne made my head spin and my heart ache. 

I am thankful to the Lord and many good friends who helped us through that devastating season of grief. Since then God has blessed me with a second wonderful husband, and I am so happy and grateful. At the same time, I am thankful for the life I had with Wayne. He was a loving, godly man, husband, father, pastor and friend. Today, Bethany and I honor him and celebrate his life. Wayne’s godly influence helped to shape us and make us who we are today. 

We love you Wayne and thank God for you and the years that your light shone bright in our lives!