As one draws close to the Lord and endeavors to become a woman of godly influence, there are three important things on which I believe mothers should focus. I will cover the first one in this blog:
1. A Mother Needs to Grow the Fruit of the Spirit
Spending time in worship, prayer and the Word, we grow in our relationship with the Lord and learn to walk in the Spirit. And as we yield to the working of the Spirit, the fruit of the Spirit becomes evident in our lives, and we develop a Christ-like character which enables us to raise our children in a godly manner.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. (Galatians 5:22-23, NIV)
Let’s take a look at each of the fruit of the Spirit:
Love: We are to serve one another in love. We have to love our children even when they are unlovable, just as Christ loves us. We don’t just love them when they do everything right!
Joy: Joy results from healthy, loving relationships. And even when things are going wrong, we can exhibit the joy of the Lord that comes from within. “The joy of the Lord is our strength.” (Nehemiah 8:10)
Peace: In the midst of the storms of raising our children, God can give us an inner peace and harmony. And if we exhibit peace, it can change volatile situations. “A soft answer turns away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.” (Prov. 15:1)
Patience: Patience is the opposite of a short temper. And, oh how we need patience as we raise our children!
Kindness: Children are sometimes treated harshly out in the world; they need a kind word at home.
Goodness: Do good to the members of your family, treating them well, and having their best interests at heart.
Faithfulness: Be committed to God, husband and children. No one else is more important in your life!
Gentleness: Minister to the needs and hurts of your children. A mother’s caring, gentle touch will soothe a hurting child.
Self-Control: This is the opposite of self-indulgence, considering your husband’s and children’s needs above your own.
Father, help me and every mother who reads this to grow the fruit of the Spirit in our lives. Help us to be godly women who influence our families for good.
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